SSS #32: Let’s Hear it for GK!

22 04 2007

Hope you all get inspired by this post. Any of you know how we could get involved in GK from outside the Philippines?

Tony Meloto, the visionary and driving force behind the Gawad Kalinga movement, is gifted with a Doctorate of Humanities, Honoris Causa, by the Ateneo de Davao. He then delivers a speech to the graduates of the university, a challenge actually, for patriotism and heroism. The same message will be given to eight other colleges and universities who have asked Tony Meloto to be their commencement speaker for 2007.

The Filipino Spirit is Rising

Antonio Meloto

2007 Commencement Exercises

Ateneo de Davao University

Today, I feel intelligent. Not only am I addressing some of the brightest minds in Mindanao , but I am also being honored by this prestigious university with a Doctorate in Humanities, Honoris Causa. This is the first doctorate that I have received and I am accepting it in all humility and pride as a recognition of the nobility of the cause and the heroism of the thousands of Gawad Kalinga workers that I represent. Thank you Fr. Ting Samson and Ateneo de Davao for bestowing the highest academic degree on a man who was born without a pedigree- the “askal” (asong kalye) who went to Ateneo and came back to the slums to help those he left behind.

To a person like myself who did not excel in Ateneo in my pursuit of a college degree, receiving this Ph. D. is extremely flattering being fully conscious that my principal role in this movement is to be the storyteller of the many who put in the sacrifice and the hard work and yet have remained mostly unrecognized. It is also exhilarating because it builds on the growing global awareness, triggered by Gawad Kalinga and other movements that have not given up on our country, that the Filipinos can and will build a squatter-free, slum- free and hunger- free Philippines by committing their collective genius, passion and strength towards restoring the dignity and the potential for excellence of the poor, the weak and the powerless.

The Filipino spirit today is rising wherever he is in the world. He is starting to discover that he has the power to liberate himself

from being a slave of the past… that he can remove the label stuck to his soul as a second class people from a third world country… that he can correct the scandal of history of being the most corrupt in Asia despite being the only Christian nation, until East Timor, in the region.

In the right setting the Filipino has proven that he can be law- abiding, hardworking, honest and excellent.

Over the years, I have not met a Filipino beggar in my travel to the US, Canada and Australia…not a single beggar that I have seen or have heard of out of more than 2 million Filipinos in the US; many Caucasians, Afro- Americans and Latinos- yes- but no Filipinos. Clearly, it is not the nature of Filipinos to beg if he is in the right home and community environment. The mendicant culture in his native land is man- made and artificial and can therefore be unmade and corrected if we give him back his dignity which is his birthright as a son of God.

In the same vein, we know that the Filipino is not lazy. Time Magazine in its 2006 article on Happiness identifies the Filipino as one of the ethnic groups in America least likely to go on welfare. How many of us know of friends and relatives who would take on two or even three jobs in pursuit of their dreams for a better life. Hardworking when motivated, resilient when tested- that is the Filipino…that is us. It is no surprise therefore that the average income of the Filipino- Americans is higher that the US national average; the former slave is now richer than the master in his master’s home country.

We must believe that we were designed for excellence. World- class Filipino doctors and nurses are healing the sick of America and Europe. Our sailors dominate the seas in every mode of marine transport for commerce and pleasure providing every imaginable form of service- and often always, they are the best navigators, the best chefs, the best entertainers. Thriving economies in Asia carry the mark of Filipino managerial expertise in their start-up stage. Filipino CEOs, CFOs, COOs captain top multinational corporations carrying on the proud expat tradition of SGV’s Washington Sycip, PLDT- SMART’s Manny Pangilinan, P&G’s Manny Pacis and many others.

Sadly, we are top of the line, crème de la crème, the best of the best elsewhere in the world except in our homeland. While the Jews and the Arabs were busy building abundance out of their desert, we were busy creating a desert out of our abundance.

Let us put a stop to our inanity and hypocrisy. Let us stop cracking jokes about our shame and misery. Instead let us celebrate with our hard work and integrity the return of our honor and pride as a gifted people, blessed by God with this beautiful land. Let us honor every great deed, every sacrifice, and every kindness that we extend to our disadvantaged and needy countrymen.

Let us put an end to our lamentation. We have suffered long enough. For 400 years, we have been gnashing our teeth, blaming one another, stepping on each other and yet have the temerity at the end of the day to ask God why this is happening as if it was His fault. It is now time to hope, to care, to work together and to rejoice.

Yes, we will rise as a nation if we nurture this emerging beautiful spirit of the Filipino and cultivate an intelligent heart. How? When we show our love for God by being our brother’s keeper- giving land to the landless, homes to the homeless and food to the hungry. This is about love and justice in a country where the majority of our people are landless, millions of them living in shanties and slums and 17% of them experiencing hunger in a rich and fertile land. This is not about charity but about authentic Christian stewardship and nation- building.

We will rise as a nation when rich Filipinos will consider the poor as an heir, like our youngest child, equal in worth and dignity with our own children, deserving an equal share in our children’s inheritance. A beautiful spirit and an intelligent heart consider the poor as family, see the face of Christ in them, and see the paradise that every slum community can become. That is why every GK home is beautifully painted and the standard of landscaping of every GK village is Ayala Alabang or Ladislawa in the case of Davao .

When we build first world communities for the poorest Filipino, we give them dignity and first world aspirations that will motivate them to dream bigger and work harder with support and nurturing. A recent study of GK Brookside, Payatas conducted by the UP Diliman College of Economics revealed an amazing result – the confidence and self-respect of the residents, many of them former scavengers, rose from 17% before GK to 99% after GK; 93% consider themselves better off in terms of quality of life and 96% believe that their economic situation will improve in the future. Clearly the spirit of the poor is rising because those with the most share their best with the least.

This nation will rise if her sons and daughters abroad will see wisdom in helping not just their relatives, which is an admirable Filipino trait, but also the poor they do not know who need help the most.

Last night, I arrived from a 1- week trip to the U.S. for the world premiere in Chicago of “Paraiso”, the Gawad Kalinga movie, and to attend GK events in Los Angeles and Las Vegas . The movie was a big hit but the bigger hit for me was the phenomenal response of our patriots in America to help the motherland by building self-reliant and sustainable GK communities. The UST Medical Alumni Association of America Board was planning not just building more houses but also hospitals and community health programs through Gawad Kalusugan. USTMAA president Dr. Primo Andres is building a beautiful GK Village for his wife, Sylvia in Panabo, Davao where she comes from as an expression of his deep affection for her. Another Davaoeno, former Cabinet Secretary Cito Lorenzo, joined me in booming Las Vegas to honor Filipino entertainers and realtors who are investing in the rebuilding of their home country.

Passion for the Philippines was evident everywhere I went. From successful young San Diego businessman Tony Olaes who spoke about sleepless nights in his excitement to help fund 20 new GK villages with his Filipino business partners to the SouthCal Ancop Sikad Bikers pedaling to build Sibol Schools and the Bayanihan Builders who are retired professionals in Los Angeles repairing homes of neighbors to raise resources to build homes in Bicol, to the 8 nurses in NorCal working extra shifts to fund their individual GK villages. The Filipino exile is waking up and starting to unleash a stream of Patriot Funds that will augment the OFW flow in fuelling the Philippine economy.

Today, I am here to salute the beautiful spirit and the intelligent heart of the people of Mindanao . Many of our volunteers here, like many in other parts of the country, build homes for the poor when they themselves do not own land or home. Christians here starting with caretakers from Couples for Christ set aside fear and comfort to serve our fellow Filipinos in Camp Abubakar and other Moslem GK communities. Your students are going out of the classrooms to learn about life and love of God and country by serving in poor communities. The LGU of Davao led by Mayor Duterte and many throughout Mindanao are doing massive land banking in solidarity with our conviction that no Filipino deserves to be a squatter in his own country. And many families here are starting to understand that giving a part of their land to give dignity and security to the landless and homeless poor is not only right with God but also builds peace, triggers economic activity, improves land values- creates a win- win situation for all.

And to you my dear graduates, what can I say? Congratulations of course for finishing what you began and for joining the ranks of the elite few of the Filipinos with a college degree. I thank your parents for their sacrifice and for giving us sons and daughters who will steward this country better than us.

You are entering adult life equipped with a degree from a respected university at an auspicious time in the life of our country. It is your destiny to reach maturity during this great season of hope, this exciting time of awakening, this period of great challenge and heroism.

You have the choice and the opportunity to correct the mistakes of our generation and build a future full of hope in this country. You can be the new breed of political leaders who will gain your mandate through visible and quantifiable performance, rather than mastery of the art of winning elections through cheating and corruption. You can be the new captains of business and industry who will work for profit with a conscience, expanding the market base by wisely investing in developing t
he potential of the poor for productivity. You can be the new elite of this country who will not be happy to send your children to exclusive schools and live in exclusive subdivisions if out of school street children are ignored and Lazarus continues to live as a squatter outside your gates.

Who can stop us from claiming our Promised Land? Spain is not our master anymore. America is not our master anymore. Japan is not our master anymore. Our enemies are not the corrupt politicians, the greedy rich, the lazy poor, the religious hypocrites and other convenient scapegoats. Our enemies are not out there anymore. Our enemies are now within us.

We have compromised our values and tolerated corruption. We have lowered our standard and tolerated poverty. We have sacrificed the truth for hypocrisy. We have chosen convenience for vision, popularity for leadership…and have chosen despair over hope.

Do we fight or do we run? Is there a King Leonides among you who will fight for honor and freedom? Are there 300 Spartans among you who will confront our enemies with extraordinary courage and love? Can you be the army who will lead our people to victory following the path of peace? Are you the generation of patriots who can shout to the world that no Filipino will remain poor because you will not allow it; that no Filipino will remain a squatter because you will not allow it; that no politician will remain corrupt because you will not allow it?

If you are, then join us in Gawad Kalinga. Together, we can build a great nation, first world in the eyes of God and respected by other great nations.

Godspeed to you our patriots and heroes. God bless our beloved Philippines.





SSS #31: Glory Days

21 04 2007

It’s been exactly 1 year and 9 days today since I said goodbye to my corporate career and embraced my new-found career as full-time stay-at-home wife and mother.

True, it’s not been all roses thus far as there are certainly days when I tend to look back on my “glory days’, so to speak – when I was actively involved in the rat race and would get my adrenaline rush from hitting asset and liability targets or from exceeding service standards. Life then was indeed very much different from the life I now live.

Back then, the sense of achievement and appreciation was much more instantaneous and predictable – simply exceed what was expected of you and you’d certainly be on your way up the corporate ladder with matching financial incentives to boot. Today, it sometimes is a struggle to know where I am exactly – whether I’m doing a good job or not or whether I am actually “adding value” to my husband and childrens’ lives by taking care of them full time.

It’s very tempting to just re-live my glory days in my mind to find satisfaction and meaning in the seemingly mindless routine I now live day-in day-out.

Don’t get me wrong, though, I still choose to be where I am now. Never mind the chores that never seem to get done or the “tutoring sessions” and “refereeing” I do almost everyday for our three growing, active and precocious children. Life has indeed been very different yet, in a strange sort of way, also very fulfilling.

I thank the Lord for giving me a new opportunity to go out of the “comfort zone” (yes, my “stressful comfort zone” seems to be a more appropriate term) I was in for the past 12 years of my corporate life to try something new and many times more exciting than what I had before. True, the recognition and appreciation from colleagues and peers are now but memories yet the innocent shrieks and lovable smiles from my little girl or my two growing boys asking for seconds because they loved what I prepared for them are just a few of the perks that I would never trade-in for any promotion or financial incentive in the world!

Let me end by sharing something I read recently which seems to reinforce the thought that my “diva days” are certainly not half as bad as my “glory days”:

“It’s been said that each life is like a book, lived one chapter at a time. If you think your most fruitful years are behind you, remember you’re writing a new chapter now. Learn to live each day with contentment in the present.

Living contentedly in the present has a way of making us productive for a lifetime—for God’s glory.”

What do you know? Each “diva day” can still be a “glory day” if I choose it to be so!





SSS #30: Our Boys

9 04 2007
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This was a photo I took using my N70 (yes, am trying my hand to be “techie” at last – don’t also want to let Keith think that I am not putting his anniversary/birthday present to good use!) during our recent trip to the Bahrain Causeway. I honestly think the picture captures the deep bond between our two boys, Luigi and Rafael.

Probably because they are only a little over than 1.5 years apart, Luigi and Rafa are very close. In fact, when they were younger, Keith and I didn’t have any problems in entertaining them or in finding worthwhile things for them to do – they simply had to be together and they would “automatically” entertain themselves! Be it by playing with their action figures, drawing, coloring or even by watching their favorite tv shows, the boys knew how to have simple, good, clean fun!

Keith and I have always prided ourselves at how well-mannered and loving our two boys have grown up to be. I, for one, couldn’t hide my excitement when the flight attendant at Northwest even gave them their very own “wings” because she couldn’t believe how two very young boys (they were only 3 and 2 at that time!) could be so well-behaved for such a long flight (it was the boys’ first long haul flight to the States).

Now that they are entering the “age of reason”, we admittedly sometimes find it difficult to deal with their naughty pranks and petty spats. Nonetheless, Keith and I have still managed to follow the “no spanking” method of disciplining the boys and it has still worked for us so far. Thankfully, both Luigi and Rafa still listen to us when we correct them – although we also have to stand our ground “more fervently” at times as these two seem to be experts at testing their limits and our patience! Well, boys will be boys, I guess!

Luigi and Rafa, we are very proud of you! We pray that you continue to be good, loving, responsible and charitable Christian men. Be one another’s “pare” (best bud) until you grow old and gray and see each other through all that happens in your lives. Take care of your sister, Marga, and always be good examples for her to follow.

We love you!





SSS# 29: Home

7 04 2007
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This is our house. It is the place that Keith and I have called home for the past 5 years prior to our move here to the kingdom. It is here that we have made memories and shared a life together – raising children, welcoming friends and family, where we exchange interesting stories and conversations and essentially sought refuge in after long, tiring days.

I had a dream about this house two nights ago and it somehow kept me awake from 3 am onwards. Not that the dream was scary or anything… guess it just struck a sentimental chord in me and made me miss our life in Manila a wee bit more.

It also made me remember the wonderful lyrics from Jose Mari Chan’s song “Constant Change” and found how appropriate these were in our current life situation. Allow me to share bits and pieces with you (at random and in no particular order) so you may also take this “sentimental journey” with me.

Constant Change

We’re on the road

We move from place to place

And oftentimes when I’m about to call it home

We have to move along

Life is a constant change

The friends we know, we meet along the way

Too soon the times we shared, form part of yesterday

For life’s a constant change and nothing stays the same

Why couldn’t we keep time from moving on?

Hold on to all the years before this moment’s gone

Why must we live our days at such a frightening pace?

We’re all like clouds that move across the sky

And changing form before our very eyes

Must we outgrow our Peter Pans and wings?

We’ve simply grown too old for tales of knights and kings?

For life’s a constant change and nothing stays the same

One realization that I had from this “trip down memory lane” is that whoever quoined the cliché “Home is where the heart is” hit the nail right on its head. No matter how I miss what used to be, I can safely say that I am now content where we are now. Enriched with our Manila life experiences, Keith and I are continuing where we left off – we are building memories and sharing a life together – raising children, welcoming friends and family, exchanging stories and conversations and seeking refuge in our new “home away from home”.

Happy Easter everyone!